My wife has entered the seventh month of pregnancy, and we have started
discussing names for our baby. She wants something traditional, but I want my
child to be an individual and am thinking of something more exotic. What does
Judaism have to say about name-giving?
Choosing a name is a big deal. A person's name is not a mere label, it
expresses the essence of its bearer. The letters that make up your name, its
sound and its meaning are descriptions of your soul. Only a prophet has the
vision and foresight to know which name fits the soul of your child.
A certain name suddenly grabs you Kabbalah teaches that parents are given
temporary prophecy to choose the right name for their child. This flash of
insight can come at any time, but when it does you just know you have got it
right. A certain name suddenly grabs you or gradually grows on you. It is divine
inspiration leading you to give the name that truly belongs to your child.
For a Jewish soul, the name of the soul is in Hebrew. Hebrew is the original
language, the holy tongue, the language which G d used to create the world.
Hebrew names have lofty meanings, and are multi-layered, so many people with the
same name are still each unique, depending on which layer of meaning their soul
expresses. And being called by your Hebrew name arouses the soul to be more
manifest in your daily life.
Look through the names of the great characters of Jewish history, or the
names of grandparents who have passed away. If one of these names jump out at
you, it may indicate that the child has a spark from that person's soul, or may
even be their reincarnation, and will emulate the positive traits of that
person. Souls tend to stay in the family, and a child named after a departed
loved one will continue to carry their flame.
Originality should not be a factor in choosing a name. Trying to be different
to everyone else means basing your choice on everyone else. This can hardly be
called individuality. But giving your child a Hebrew name that both you and your
wife agree upon means giving a name that is true to your child's unique
Remember, you are not just naming a baby. You are also naming a teenager, an
adult and a senior citizen. Today's cool names will be out of fashion by the
time your baby starts teething. Hebrew names have stayed in vogue for 4000
years. Use your chance to be a prophet for a day, and choose a name that
describes your baby's soul.